~ "What have I said to her that might have hurt her feelings. She has been crying. Please apologised to her in the morning. She is just an immature girl, very sensitive, must talk to her nicely. She is afraid of sleeping alone." (Translated in English as it was send to me in Malay).

It was send to me at 2330 hours. I couldnt sleep thinking of the problem. Couldnt concentrate at work the next day. I send a harsh reply to my brother stated my feelings and asked him to ask her what did I say or do that hurt her feelings before accusing me.

I was informed that it was all because of this food (lepat) that she make and I told her I dislike it. I was laughing as I find it hilarious. I was made sleepless night and lost concentration at work just because of that. I told my bro that I think it is more to it then that. She has some unsolve issues.

I told my sister Kat to hold a family meeting just for her to let out her feelings. And its true, she has issues with me. I and her had a huge arguments and both of us raised our voices at each other in the presence of my family. I vent my anger by hitting my hand on the table. She reminded me that I am older and why am I acting so immature.

Well, I shouted back that if you vent your anger by crying, throwing stuffs, running away and locked my bro out of the room then this is the way how I vent my anger. By hitting my palm on the table. Do you have problem with that? (But she didnt know that how I wished I can just give her a big tight slapped on her cheeks instead).
I was also reminded of always raking up the past but she didnt realised that she also has been doing the same thing. I was just doing the same thing. Well she was asking for it. She claimed that I was insincere when I forgive her the last time since I kept raking up the past.

I was burnt with rage and only GOD knows how I felt at that time.

Oh ya, back to the food thingy, she said that I talk to her harshly. I was using the computer at that time when she came into my room and asked me why I didnt want to eat the lepat. I told her, I don't like it. and she replied WHY? OMG, I already informed her that if she want to make the food, make only two or three because only she and my dad like to eat it. The rest of us don't like lepat. See it this way, she angered me by asking why? but I remembered clearly that I didnt said harshly to her. Goodness gracious. SHE IS MAD. So emo.

From what I have observe she likes to cook food that we told her we hated it. Then she felt sad that no one ate them. OMG. I can understand how she felt but the problem is she knew that we hated it in the first place then why she cooked it.
It is still an unsolved puzzled for me?????

And also she asked how old I am? on that same day before she asked me about the lepat. I can also assume that she is trying to hint me that I am old enough to get married and get the hell of the house so that she could sleep on my bed whenever my bro is on night shift.

She has really make me feel full of rage. I have forgiven her in front of my family but why is it had for me to forget it. She hurts my feelings more than her stupid lepat. Damn it!!!

Nowadays I tried to engage less conversation with her. As long as she don't step on my tail, I will be Okay!!!!!!