Stand Up for Myself!!
On Saturday 20th January, I did something that was out of my league. I was with my sis, Mariah on that particular day at Tampines interchange waiting for my another sis, Kathy. A gal, who is a volunteer from Darul Ihsan orphanage, approached us and wanted us to spend about 3 minutes of our time to answer her 3 simple questions. I just wanted to walk off but my sis stayed, out of her good heart. . She said that those kids had to survive $10 for a month. My sister felt for those kids but we didn't have cash with us. I can say that they are professional and manipulative people, they claimed that they had no intention of forcing people to donate but the way they act are so superficial. You can just see through them. They are lying through their teeth with that pathetic smile on their faces. I really salute them for their acting skills. Oh ya!! back to the real problem. We replied that we had no cash with us and we are looking for ATM. Maybe next time we donate. That girl was so persistent not to let us go. She called out for her colleague, this Indian guy. A plump guy. He volunteered to show us the ATM. My sis willing to go but I'm not because Kathy is waiting for us at the other side. He sarcastically trying to get ride of me by saying "You can go, I DON'T WANT TO WASTE YOUR TIME AND MY TIME. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO DONATE JUST SAID SO." Then he tried to concentrate on my sis. Saying that he will bring her to the ATM. I was liked hey looked we are sisters. I really can't tolerate his sarcasm. Cut the crap. My intention was once we get to our lil sis Kathy, I could borrow the cash from her and donate. But these people are unreasonable and can't get the clue and they keep pushing me and pushing me at the corner. They offended me and hurt my feelings. I have to stand up for myself. I can't let this people pull me down and make me feel this way about myself. After I got Kathy, I'm determined to approached that gal. I asked her am I wasting her time. Beside her was this Chinese boy who asked the gal to shut up and he wanted to solve my problems. Whenever I threw a question at the gal, this boy would interrupt us. I was so angry and told him to shut the hell up. I'm talking to the girl. Not to mention that he was not even presence at the scene. Then came the intermission.
The stupid and F**K Indian plump guy came with that stupid smile on his irritating face. He approached us. Then that Chinese boy talked to him facing his back at me..."whispering so loud that I could hear every single shit that he said". He said,"She(refer to me) said that we force her to donate."
I could feel my blood pressure shot up. I scolded the Chinese boy. I told him how dare you put words into my mouth. I didn't even say anything about forcing to donate which by the way is exactly their intension. My question was so simple. AM I WASTING YOUR TIME? I could complaint you people to your organization. You guys are a disgrace and not suitable to raise funds for those needy kids. I am even doubtful of your intention of asking for donation. I said that straight to their bloody faces. When they beginning to take out their forms and stuffs. I said don't bother cause I'm not here to see the evidence that you are not a fraud. It just that why didn't you let us go when we said that we have no cash and that already stated clearly that we don't have money to donate. Why must we proof to you guys that we really have no money. YOU GUYS ARE THE ONE WASTING MY TIME and added to that persisting to bring us to the ATM. What a drama. If thats not forcing then what. Sarcasm??
Then that F**K Indian guy stood before me and said that he is a very kind person. I won't say sorry because I don't feel that I have offended you in any way. He denied having said that,"I DON'T WANT TO WASTE YOUR TIME AND MY TIME. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO DONATE JUST SAID SO." I would give him a thumbs up for his act. Wow, thats it. I'm not listening to your F**king crap. I showed him my irritated face and showed him my hand right in front of his sickening face. Talked to my hand caused my ears won't listen to your bloody crap. He said fine. GOD BLESS YOU.
It was really a big commotion but I felt happy and satisfied with myself.
Remember that no one has the right to make you feel inferior without your consent.
On Saturday 20th January, I did something that was out of my league. I was with my sis, Mariah on that particular day at Tampines interchange waiting for my another sis, Kathy. A gal, who is a volunteer from Darul Ihsan orphanage, approached us and wanted us to spend about 3 minutes of our time to answer her 3 simple questions. I just wanted to walk off but my sis stayed, out of her good heart. . She said that those kids had to survive $10 for a month. My sister felt for those kids but we didn't have cash with us. I can say that they are professional and manipulative people, they claimed that they had no intention of forcing people to donate but the way they act are so superficial. You can just see through them. They are lying through their teeth with that pathetic smile on their faces. I really salute them for their acting skills. Oh ya!! back to the real problem. We replied that we had no cash with us and we are looking for ATM. Maybe next time we donate. That girl was so persistent not to let us go. She called out for her colleague, this Indian guy. A plump guy. He volunteered to show us the ATM. My sis willing to go but I'm not because Kathy is waiting for us at the other side. He sarcastically trying to get ride of me by saying "You can go, I DON'T WANT TO WASTE YOUR TIME AND MY TIME. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO DONATE JUST SAID SO." Then he tried to concentrate on my sis. Saying that he will bring her to the ATM. I was liked hey looked we are sisters. I really can't tolerate his sarcasm. Cut the crap. My intention was once we get to our lil sis Kathy, I could borrow the cash from her and donate. But these people are unreasonable and can't get the clue and they keep pushing me and pushing me at the corner. They offended me and hurt my feelings. I have to stand up for myself. I can't let this people pull me down and make me feel this way about myself. After I got Kathy, I'm determined to approached that gal. I asked her am I wasting her time. Beside her was this Chinese boy who asked the gal to shut up and he wanted to solve my problems. Whenever I threw a question at the gal, this boy would interrupt us. I was so angry and told him to shut the hell up. I'm talking to the girl. Not to mention that he was not even presence at the scene. Then came the intermission.
The stupid and F**K Indian plump guy came with that stupid smile on his irritating face. He approached us. Then that Chinese boy talked to him facing his back at me..."whispering so loud that I could hear every single shit that he said". He said,"She(refer to me) said that we force her to donate."
I could feel my blood pressure shot up. I scolded the Chinese boy. I told him how dare you put words into my mouth. I didn't even say anything about forcing to donate which by the way is exactly their intension. My question was so simple. AM I WASTING YOUR TIME? I could complaint you people to your organization. You guys are a disgrace and not suitable to raise funds for those needy kids. I am even doubtful of your intention of asking for donation. I said that straight to their bloody faces. When they beginning to take out their forms and stuffs. I said don't bother cause I'm not here to see the evidence that you are not a fraud. It just that why didn't you let us go when we said that we have no cash and that already stated clearly that we don't have money to donate. Why must we proof to you guys that we really have no money. YOU GUYS ARE THE ONE WASTING MY TIME and added to that persisting to bring us to the ATM. What a drama. If thats not forcing then what. Sarcasm??
Then that F**K Indian guy stood before me and said that he is a very kind person. I won't say sorry because I don't feel that I have offended you in any way. He denied having said that,"I DON'T WANT TO WASTE YOUR TIME AND MY TIME. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO DONATE JUST SAID SO." I would give him a thumbs up for his act. Wow, thats it. I'm not listening to your F**king crap. I showed him my irritated face and showed him my hand right in front of his sickening face. Talked to my hand caused my ears won't listen to your bloody crap. He said fine. GOD BLESS YOU.
It was really a big commotion but I felt happy and satisfied with myself.
Remember that no one has the right to make you feel inferior without your consent.
